Deep down, you feel the “want” to be a female. But, you are a man… married to a woman…
You live a secret life of panties, bras, slips, corsets, dresses, heels, stockings, and other feminine clothing… trying to keep them hidden from your significant other. The fear of your wife or girlfriend finding out your “fantasy”, which with some isn’t a fantasy or fetish at all, but a real desire, frightens you. You face the reality of being judged by not only your significant other, but friends, colleagues, family, etc.
Such is the above for a client of mine. I will refer to HER as “Julia”, because this is the name that she has chosen for herself.
“Julia” is like so many I talk to that have the REAL want of being exposed. Being able to openly admit that “I am a female trapped in a male’s body.” Looking at herself in the mirror, she sees a woman, not a man.
Those of you that have talked to me know that I do not judge. I always tell my clients that so long as your fantasy, fetish, whatever… doesn’t interfere with my own morals, I have no problem doing the call. And, this is the truth. For me to judge, would be opening myself up for judgment because of the types of calls that I do. And personally, I see nothing wrong with me talking to men about their fantasies and fetishes of dressing like a woman or just enjoying a nice pair of panties and a bra.
In “Julia’s” case, it goes way beyond the fantasy. She truly wants to be exposed, without judgment, to family, friends, colleagues, etc. She has been keeping it under wraps for several years and is now to the point that she truly wants others to know that the once considered fantasy, fetish or pervision, has gone beyond. “Julia” is at the point where she is willing to RISK everything to take on her deep seeded self. With this being said, “Julia” wants the world to know that under her suit and tie, there is a female lurking, clad in panties and a bra, and perhaps a pair of stockings.
I might add that “Julia” has a very prominent position with a univeristy in the northeast, and coming out of her shell would, without a doubt, ruin her career, as well as dissolve her marriage, and enduring the loss of friends and family. But, I believe this is a risk that “Julia” is ready to take… so, if exposing herself to the world is what would make her truly happy, I think we should all support her!
Life is too short, “Julia”, so shed that suit and tie… and let the world know that there is truly a woman bursting to expose herself to the world!
Good luck, “Julia”…